
Breaking The Conflict Cycle – Turning Difference into Growth in Your Relationship
In the quiet moments after another argument, many couples find themselves asking: Why does this keep happening? You may feel like you're stuck in a never-ending cycle—saying the arguing about same things, triggering the same reactions, and growing more distant with each round of battle. If this sounds familiar, know this: you're not alone, and more importantly, you're not broken. Conflict is not a sign of failure. It’s simply a sign of difference—and, while uncomfortable, difference is not a threat, it is a normal and even necessary part of a relational growth. Why does difference feel so threatening? In the early stages of a relationship, many couples feel deeply connected—aligned in values, goals, even daily rhythms. But over time, as life unfolds, intimacy deepens and the emphasis on similarities subsides,…